

The Gray Barn Affair
Fine dining. Rustic beauty. Lasting connections.
Agave by Firelight Update
A little change of plans at the Gray Barn. We’ve decided to press pause on Agave by Firelight and will not gather on October 10.
We’ll miss gathering with you this time, but Cris and I are already dreaming and planning the next Gray Barn gatherings for 2027 — and we’re excited about what’s taking shape.
Thank you for being here. We can’t wait to share more.
In the meantime, we will keep sharing the food, people and moments that make the Gray Barn what it is.
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A Look Back . . See What We've Hosted
From signature dinners to private celebrations and community events, explore past gatherings at The Gray Barn Affair.
Kind Words
"Driving up to the Gray Barn feels like breathing in joy. From the calm of the country to the beauty of the water, it feels like a good time is getting ready to happen!."

"The barn's hosts focus on details which is obvious from the signature drinks and incredible taste of the food to the thank you treats that end each event. I would recommend anyone to enjoy this beautiful space in the country."

"Elevated food in a beautiful location. "
"My favorite part was really the sense of community."

"From the delicious food and gorgeous weather to your friendly, attentive staff, everything was seamless. You made planning effortless, allowing us to relax and fully enjoy this special day with family and friends."

"The Gray Barn Affair made our parents’ 60th anniversary unforgettable. The delicious food, beautiful décor, and intimate atmosphere were perfect, and the team made our family feel truly welcomed and cared for. We’re so grateful for such a special evening!"